Meeting People
- Smile—a genuine “I’m glad to see you” not the cheesy, quick grin. Catching the person’s eye and communicate care.
- Offer your help—start with a question like, “Are you looking for something?,” “Can I help you?,” or simply “Need anything?” Let them know you are available to help and not in such a big hurry that their needs can’t be addressed.
- Ask a question—ask them a question about something in the past, from the past week or even earlier in the day.
- Create Anticipation—be excited about what is upcoming, something on the camp schedule or something you know about that is worthy of anticipating.
- Thank you—recognize how this person has helped make your ministry possible and thank them for their contribution. Everyone is someone for whom you can be thankful.
Opening Questions
- Are you good at meeting people for the first time? What makes you good or bad at it?
- Try to hear from most everyone in your group. You will need to press to get a wide variety of answers
- What are the strategies for avoiding meeting people?
- Don’t look at them, be in a hurry, make your phone your wall, etc.
Closing Thoughts
- Practice, Practice, Practice! This is a skill!
- Quit thinking about yourself and look for opportunities to help others.
- Create enough time in your schedule to allow other people to interrupt your life.